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Forgiveness

A Yoruba proverb says "oro arokan, ni fa ekun a sun da" - meaning when you overthink a hurt, it leads to endless crying. One of the most difficult virtue to learn is forgiveness. It is the premise for the Christian faith. People of faith are commanded to forgive 70 times 7 times a day, that is 490 times a day. I do not think someone exist that get offended that much in one day.

When you learn to forgive, your life is better, you sleep better, you are able to focus and walk around without feeling the weight or burden of the world on your shoulder.

Who has offended you that you have not been able to forgive because it hurts so bad? Make conscious intentional effort to forgive the person - whether they ask for it or not. It does not mean you will forget, but a choice to let go releases the pain you feel when you remember. You are not doing them a favor but yourself. We are all imperfect and we live in an imperfect world. Let us learn to forgive on another.

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