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FRIENDSHIP.....

Ogun omode kii s'ere f'ogun odun (20 children cannot play together for 20 years - a Yoruba proverb)... I found out today that one of my friends (my closest friend in the church for years) from my time at my church in Nigeria has unfriended me on FB... I did not notice because we have not spoken in a long time due to fundamental differences...

Truth is that the one who will not leave you is you... Friends come, friends go... In my short life, I see how humans evolve and how our values unravel. You see people become something else when they attain a level of freedom, education, wealth, position, or popularity... their true character shows...

In friendship... when there is nothing else you have left in common, that friendship has lost meaning and becomes a drain... It is time and best to let go and move on...

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