The natural law of growth makes us humans stop growing vertically after attaining a certain height often coinciding with a certain age. What I have realized is that about the same time, many stop learning new things - the hunger to acquire new information diminishes, the quest to read books that enlighten, to seek new wisdom that liberates and maintains mentors gradually slows, and in some cases stops. Often, there is a false sense of "I have arrived," I know it all; I am an adult now; I am a graduate, so I know better; I have enough experience to last a lifetime; if I have survived on my own with little help so I don't need anyone or new wisdom for the next phase of life, etc.. This might not be true for all, but many fall into this mold.
The consequence of this is a hollow mind, difficulty in making good decisions, we fall into more conflicts with everybody-anybody, and the sense of emptiness increases. Many will get into conflict with childhood friends for stupid reasons that border on self-pride informed by "I don't need anybody."
Learning and growing is a lifelong thing. The day you stop is the day you start to diminish.
This is my first thought for 2024. I hope you will include in your goals this year a lifelong learning and growth mindset.
Ise ni ogun ise (Work is the panacea to poverty) mura si ise ore mi (Be conscientious my friend in your work) ise ni a fi n di eni giga (Through hard work can we excel) ti a ko ba ri eni feyintin (If there is none to create a pathway to the top for you) bi ole la n ri (It is as if we are lazy) ti a ko ba ri eni gbekele (If there is no one to be your mentor and godfather) a tera mo ise eni, (Work harder then, don't give up, innovate, there is dignity in labor, a way will open up for you soon) Iya re le l'owo (Your mom may be super rich) Baba re le l’esin lekan (You dad could have real estate in choice places) T’oba gbo’ju le won o te tan ni mo so fun oh (If you trust in their riches, your shame is around the corner) Ohun aho j’iya fun kii t’ojo (What you did not labor often does not last, because you might not value them) Ohun ta ba s’ise fun nii pe l’owo eni (It is what you work for that becomes a treasure) Apa lara, Igunpa niye kan (Arms are your fam...
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